I don't get it either, your post caught my eye since we ordered on the same day. I ordered through a company lease program but I plan on buying the vehicle myself at the end of the lease.
Another person in my company ordered in Oct and took delivery in Feb. He ordered black and he also ordered Uconnect but it came minus the Uconnect.
I think we are being treated different since they are leased vehicles. But my current vehicle is 40K over the trade in time. So Dodge is losing out on that value as the delay is not my fault.